REGAIN YOUR POWER is about realigning yourself, taking control of your life and living your life to the fullest! In this book Brenda reveals the step by step process that forms the basis for making major life-changing decisions in the midst of our ever-changing busy lives. This book will empower you with timeless principles and help you attract more abundance, joy and happiness into your life.

Raghu Reddy

Speaker, Executive Coach, Author, Founder of Smash Method For Profits

A truly inspiring read, Brenda communicates timeless and practical wisdom in a way that’s easy to relate to. An enlightening and ultimately empowering book.

Dan Dalaney

Magic Theatre Productions, Australia

This book has helped me reflect upon my actions and make meaningful changes to enhance my thoughts, attitude and perspectives. It is true gold.

Khyla Raman

Trainer, Identi3 Profiling

Being somebody who has transformed myself from an oft-bullied wallflower in school to a professional speaker and coach, I can attest to the saying that we must first do the inner work necessary to change ourselves first, and Brenda Tan was able to bring this message masterfully to readers through her simple yet heart-centric style of writing. Everyone of us can relate to the relevant anecdotes and powerful lessons shared vicariously through the stories of others.   A must-read for anyone who wants to improve his/her quality of life!

Coen Tan

Founder of Ministry of Influence

An amazingly useful read! Through the use of lucidly written stories, Brenda gave a completely new insight on how easy it is to empower oneself. Each chapter outlines sensible, helpful life skills that would benefit anyone across all ages.

Alvin Loh


The lessons, ideas, stories and thought-provoking questions in this book will guide you to Regain Your Power so that you can live your life fully, honestly and without regret.

Nishant Kasibhatla

Guinness Record Holder (2011), Grand Master of Memory and Author of ‘Maximise Your Memory Power

Empowering! Women who are trying to keep their own life from becoming a soap opera should read this. Friends should read together and support one another with the simple approaches and effective exercises!

Charlene Tan


I have known Brenda for a few years and have come to recognize and admire her for consistently reaching new heights and being a great role model for others to take risks and take that road less travelled. She has written a wonderful piece here, full of anecdotes, stories and life experiences which will evidently cause shifts in many lives. This book is a great testimony to the challenges she faced as a kid and how she weathered all of them to eventually turn out into the lovely person that she is. Congrats Brenda!

Dr Granville D’Souza

Author of ‘EQ From the Inside Out’, ‘Unshakeable Spirit’ and ‘The EQ Leader’

The genius of this book is in how Brenda brings thought provoking personal anecdotes together with invaluable exercises which help readers immediately internalize information and apply learning.   She breaks material into short, easily comprehensible chunks designed to push the reader to swiftly deepen personal understanding while revealing the tremendous power individuals actually wield in determining their own health, wealth and personal happiness.   Inspiring and empowering, great to the last page.

Marshall St.Louis


Brenda is a wonderful teacher, and this book communicates many important life-changing lessons for those who are looking for happiness and completion. Regain Your Power covers all the major emotional challenges that we go through in life, and offers explanations and uplifting messages meant to clear emotional blockage(s) of the reader. Brenda also includes exercises for the reader to go within for a journey of self discovery. This is a concise life manual, I wish I could have read this 20 years ago!

Olivia Choong

Co-founder of Green Drinks Singapore and Green PR

This book is very revealing, highlighting the challenges we face in relationships, health, work and money. A wonderful book that distills pearls of wisdom with simple and effective approach towards being the YOU we always wanted to be!

Bruce Campbell

Director of Entrepreneurial Business School, Australia

I am truly touched by the sincere, personal sharing by Brenda Tan. Its drill right into the core of all inner challenges we are facing and offer enlightening solutions how we can overcome them. Liken to a mirror that reflects our blind spot, I highly recommend her book to all my friends!

Loi Suling


This book can save many relationships at breaking point. Couples should read it! Insightful, profound and a source of guide to those who want to have empowering relationships and success!

Pamelina Siow

Founder of GrowthPlus